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Animal care internship


2011
07.08
MY four-Sunday internship with Red Paws Rescue kicked off last week, and though I have been planning to blog about it, I have procrastinated all week long! Of course, this has nothing to do with my motivation levels for the internship itself, which was a both a learning experience AND an eye opener about the plight and needs of our canine friends.
The shelter is located at Sai Ashram in Chattarpur. You’ll know right off the bat that you’ve arrived as you will be greeted by a gang of curious but friendly canines.
As I entered the shelter I realised I was inside a cemetery for dogs, with loving epithets and fancy gravestones. A bunch of volunteers were acquainting themselves with the animals at the shelters. Volunteers comprised parents, kids, single adults and students, all sincere about learning and giving.

this lil' fella has a bad bout of distemper that paralysed his hind legs...but his spirit isn't dampened and he hops around staving off any bullies in the vicinity

There are two to three categories of animals at the shelter. The healthy buggers who run freely in the grass and compound and even outside, the ill boys and girls who suffer from mange, distemper and other ailments, and the abandoned ones who are fewer in number and waiting for a home/ or to recover from their ailments, which is mostly the reason they were abandoned.

We bathed the animals, applied anti-mange lotion and removed ticks (a truckload of them) with a vengeance. Of course cuddles and hugs were free flowing. There were a couple of kids who were slightly terrified but warmed up eventually. Next week we shall receive our red paw rescue signature tees. So happy to be an intern. Yippee!

Sarah spent all morning de-ticking and comforting this lil fellow. Update (July 22) : She is now fostering Snoopy, and he is recovering with all that TLC!

German Shepard - lab mix wants some TLC

this terrified boy turned to putty when this pup rolls in his arms...

This dalmation was abandoned with a fractured foot...needs foster care to make sure he doesn't chew his cast off...otherwise a congenial chappie...

this lil sweetheart is blind and didn't quite know what is happening...but such trust!

Rani is a spitz who gave birth to a litter recently...

This lil bugger, last of Rani's litter has been adopted...

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the pedigree lovers


2011
06.21

Paneer and milk for these street boys

Typically, there are three kinds of dog lovers, self-proclaimed ie…

One, pedigree magnets with their eye on a fashionable canine such as a basset hound, beagle or a great dane. eventually, they may abandon once it when it contracts a deadly disease due to neglect or perhaps old age.

two, street dog saviours who vaccinate, bathe and offer other solutions for a fee.

three and finally, genuine dog lovers like this elderly gentleman in the picture. without fail every morning, he arrives on his moped and he feeds these three street dogs paneer and milk. no wonder, they are such tadga (tough) fellas’!

No 1 reminds me of my time at animal shelter Friendicoes a while back. We were busy walking the doggies here – they come in all shapes and sizes and breeds. like the little pedigree being tickled by volunteer Divya. it was abandoned by its owners sometime back. her sadness breaks your heart into a million pieces.

volunteer divya with a young un'

my jaw may be broken jaw but not my spirit

then this little one whose jaw was broken through an accident that morning. a kindly person brought him in. though the flesh was weak, the spirit was not broken. soon he was trying to stand stall and scamper around much to everyone’s chagrin.

sweet lil' monkey

this little monkey’s mom fell from a tree and died. he now lives in a cage with a doodoo bottle and a swing. if you stoop close enough, you will hear him whining silently.

many of the volunteers were shocked to see the sadness in the eyes of the animals at the shelter…that is because

sweetie...

many are abandoned pets. in fact, such a dastardly act took place right before our very eyes.

abandoned pom...

several people bring their pets to see the vet and amidst that crowd someone stole in, tied their Pomeranian to a chair (in the most convoluted manner) and stole out. the little pom was a cheerful fellow but very soon the cheer turned to anxiety, then panic and eventually, that awful feeling oscillating between hope and betrayal. it tried to run away and six of us sat around it for a long, long time. finally, the shelter took in the animal, who was howling in despair. what must it be like to be abandoned from a loving home?thrown on to the roads to fend oneself or into a cage with a bunch of other howling animals? shudders.
friendicoes receives mails everyday from families who can no longer care for pets asking them to find homes for them. some just leave their animals tied outside the shelter, make like a tree and leave.
The silver lining on our doggie’s day our event at the shelter was that I met some pretty like-minded people who wish to do something for animals, but don’t know where to begin. well, there are several ways, which don’t involve actually adopting a pet, because that’s a fulltime occupation and needs full commitment.

puppy love stall

Lending a helping hand during adoption drives is one way. A couple of hours at the Puppy Love Stall by NGO People For Animals, stationed in the compound of MGF mall, Saket, will leave you both amused and bewildered. A couple of weeks back, there were three pups – two aged 2 and a half years of age, one fella aged 4 months, and six wee kitties, waiting to be placed in loving homes. Sadly that was not to be. People came, cooed, tickled, stroked, enquired and but none took any of the little ones.

puppy for adoption...

I suppose getting a pet home in a city is a big, big deal, akin to having a child. Yet, these few hours gave me a good insight into how people relate to animals. One little boy wanted to play with one of the pups – but he was getting rather impatient that the pup was doing nothing. So in a misplaced attempt to make the pup do something, he would grab its tail or slap a bottle against its belly.

kitty climbing up my thigh...

Another was grabbing a kitty, as he would a toy. Very soon I knew why. His mom was prone to grabbing too, not understanding that these were flesh and bones!

I requested her to handle with care and showed the little boy how to stroke a puppy on its tummy, gently. The puppy responded well and the little boy was elated. Overall the handling of the animals was rough and I gathered that they had never held a pet nor a baby!
So, bottomline: everyone wanted some interaction, and perhaps did not mean to be rough. yet, I realised that there was a sea of people out there who are not animal-savvy at all, and needed to be gently nudged into the world of kitties and canines.
I showed the kiddos how to gently strokes these little ones and mentioned that grabbing will only result in one of the two – a bite or a scratch. I found that they were willing to listen.The puppy love stall is open every wednesday, saturday and sunday between 5 and 8 pm, and they do need volunteers.
The other way to help is to choose a dog or two in your neighbourhood and feed them everyday. Vaccination and neutering is also a good idea. it does not cost much, perhaps the price of a few drinks on a sat night, which one can jolly well sacrifice. hungry dogs can be aggressive, but if they are fed it’s one way to make the neighbourhood safer.

my lil' fluffy...

Fostering a pet for a few weeks is also possible. This usually happens in the interim when a puppy’s immunity needs to be built up for a few weeks before it can enter a shelter/ be adopted or else an abandoned pet, like our little Fluffy in this pic who is our house guest for a few weeks can be placed in a forever home. he was abandoned by his old owners and rescued from a ditch by an animal activist called Minu. he was in a bad, bad state but is recovering very nicely. he is potty-trained, which is a Godsent and very sweet in his disposition. we shall be sad when he goes, but then this isn’t about us, it’s about him.

Now, this vet who claimed to make house calls for the love of strays, obviously did not feel the same.

lord daffy...

I asked him to vaccinate Daffy, and he did not as much as pet him. Daffy growled suspiciously and the doc seemed more intent of giving him his pokes and taking off.

One vaccination later, Daffy was yelping like a puppy because the doc poked him where it really hurt – on the very bone which was damaged when he was a kid. the doc did not seem particularly bothered but kept repeating his stance of loving stray animals, somewhat like a broken record. After one injection he was packed off.

One more observation – many individuals in the pet/ dog/ kitty circle of life don’t understand the value of a gentle approach as opposed a rough/ aggressive one. this includes vets, volunteers, helpers and even animal activists, who often do any of those chores themselves. My advice: be gentle.
Now, let me sign out with this wonderful video which captures the rescue by animal activists, of beagles that have never seen the light of day. Known as the Beagle Freedom Project by an organisation called Animal Rescue Media Education (ARME), the main aim is to rescue and rehabilitate two-year old beagles that have been kept in cages in labs for testing cosmetics and medicines. they are known by the tattoos in their ears and not by names…until the rescue of course…interestingly, one little beagle is named Freedom…
warning…it’s one heck of a heartwarming video and tends to leave softies (like moi) all teary-eyed…

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In whom we trust


2011
05.28

Poor doggie

Cookie

NO cliché is truer than the one that goes: A dog is a man’s best friend. It holds water. And with very good reason.

Every now and then, when people snigger between the shadows at those who obsess over canines, their common refrain being “I bet they don’t treat human beings this well,” I want to tell them that dog lovers don’t merely like dogs. We admire those qualities we desire in ourselves and in other human beings.

Loyalty. Unconditional love. Unconditional friendship. How many times have we put our faith and trust in another human being and been betrayed? How many times have we helped another human beings, and they’ve plain forgotten? We can’t help it. We are wired to be turncoats at some point or the other, on purpose or unknowingly. But once you trust a canine, be rest assured you can trust him or her, forever. Which brings me to a little incident that occurred outside my office, yesterday.

It was a regular day at work, and I was all set to go home and watch an episode of Dexter, when my colleague’s elderly driver popped out of the woodwork, while I was giving Daffy a bite. “Madame, I was waiting two hours for you. A dog got run over and is hiding under a car, he refuses to come out,” he said in Hindi. Though the doggie (see pic) – who we shall call cookie – wasn’t bleeding he was definitely in an excruciating amount pain, and was hiding under a car, whose owner we could not locate. He would not be lured by chicken pieces. But to my amazement the neighbouring chaiwala, crouched down and pulled the dog out. A hurt dog will bite because he feels great fear. But this one did not bite and seemed to trust this man.

He was laid on the pavement, and was shuddering with pain. Bloodshot eyes, and deep breathing, but no sound. Apparently, the screeching and yelping were over and done with at noon when a callous human ran him over. Now it was 8 pm. Now he was resigned to his pain. Soon we had an audience, some with genuine interest and a desire to help/ be supportive, and some random curious janta. One cab driver, who came off sounding like an authority on life and its complexities, declared that soon this dog would breathe his last.

But the chaiwala stroked the dog and sprinkled some water on his eyes and inside his mouth. It was evident that he knew the dog well and viceversa. We called up Friendicoes (NGO for animal welfare), and they said they would send an ambulance to pick him up, and they did by 9 pm, as a flat happened on the way (such is Murphy’s law). Typically, the first thing the Friendicoes helpers do is to tie up the mouth of the dog because hurt dogs tend to bite (out of fear). But when these guys arrived, the chaiwala volunteered to carry the dog and place him in the van. They heaved a sigh of relief and this is always the tricky part.

Once in the ambulance, the dog tried sitting up but couldn’t eventually. The ambulance sped off. Tomorrow I shall visit the blither and check on his progress, and when he is healed he will be released back into this locality. But hats off to the driver who waited two hours. Hats off to the chaiwala who was so loving and lost some customers to help a wounded animal. And hats off to the dog who trusted him.

Update: Sadly, he did not make it and passed away on two nights later due to an internal injury. But he was such a brave pup. the chaiwala was sad. very sad.

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He’s a pistol. Not an AK-47


2010
03.29

Daffy, the survivor. An auto ran over him when he was a baby.

For the last one month or so I have been coordinating with a local NGO, which works towards the welfare of animals, especially street dogs. I wanted to get ma boy Daffy – a little street un’ whom I feed everyday – vaccinated. Many people feed street animals but don’t vaccinate them. Besides it being a prevention measure, since a dog is a dog is a dog and it will bark, most people feel safer in the presence of a vaccinated street dog.

Finally, I called up the owner and told him very agitatedly that if we don’t vaccinate ASAP, the little fellow is going to bite someone. Paranoia will strike the neighbourhood and someone would also come after me, blaming me for the debacle. Anyways, he agreed to send his people.

They landed up at 10 am, an army of four, equipped to face the lion in his den. Except that this lion is one and a half years old, has a back that is slightly squished (an auto drove over him when he was little) and who will wag his tail at anyone who expresses a smattering of affection.

The plan was that I would take him to his usual corner where he would be fed, and then we would proceed to vaccinate. Two of the boys landed up with their dog-catcher sticks (two long poles with a noose at the end of each one). The boy started barking at them with a vengeance. I think he smelt something fishy. One chap slipped in from the other gate. He then grabbed the boy using the skin at the back of his neck, and not in the right manner. This tactic proved disastrous; Daffy peed, not one but twice out of fear, and then scampered away in fright. It was a horrific sight, and in the bargain I found myself fending off some tears. The guys looked at me as if I was a ninny. I told the dog catcher that I would go after the boy, but he must stay as many square miles away as possible.

Boy was found crouching on the porch. As dudes approached, he began barking at the ambulance and all the local dogs joined in the symphony, which pretty soon reached deafeningly-high decibel levels. I tried feeding him a biscuit, but all appetite was quashed. Finally, he came and sat next to me but refused to follow me to the ambulance.
So I finally lifted him myself (he was heavy as hell), walked towards the ambulance and sat with him in my lap. By now he had calmed down significantly.

The door was pulled shut and one chap standing at one window, held his mouth closed (gently) and another sat on the driver’s seat and gave him two quick injections. It was over in five seconds, and Daffy did not as much as wiggle.

He hopped out of the van, and I paid the folks after they took 15 whole minutes to tell me the details. In dog years that is several hours, and the dogs in the neighbourhood grew very, very agitated, howling themselves hoarse. I requested them to park the van outside the compound, but they were callous and nonchalant about it. “Madame, they also bark at our NGO,” one told me in the most sub-moronic manner. ”True, but the local people here will get very irritated and not understand what the drama is all about,” I said, and right then a man came and tossed a large stick on one of the howling dogs.

It is far fetched to expect the average pedestrian to be kind to animals, considering that they are often not kind to even humans! However, one would expect these boys from an NGO that uses celebs to promote their cause, to be both, sensitive and sensible. But no. This is a job for them, and they are not attuned to treating situations with some amount of finesse. But let me not blame mere mortals for earning a living, in a manner can sometimes prove fatal.

While I have no doubt that the owners of the NGO have the best intentions and love animals to distraction, it currently functions like a one-man show, and that is not condusive for the survival and expansion of any initiative or enterprise. When a volunteer wants to join hands to help, one is left standing for a couple of hours at the venue with no one to give you any instruction in the areas where there is much to be desired. The call-to-action is missing as is resource mobilisation. The website states that they need newspapers and clothes and things. On several occasions, I have asked them to come and collect all these items and more, neatly stashed away in garbage bags at my house. They just answer in the affirmative and never show up.

Sadly one has very few alternatives in this city that are besides being committed, are consistent in their functioning. So, one has no choice but to call this one in question since vets will never come to a street doggie, let alone any doggie even if you are ready to pay them. On a different note, many people claim to love dogs. But this is really code for approving of a particular brand of dog, that comes with beautiful sheen, costs a ton of cash, is walked and attended to by a dog walker and may eventually be abandoned by being tied to a pole somewhere.

PS: 3-year-old Rottweiler found tied to pole (abandoned by owners) in Delhi. Very docile. needs good home, desperately. call Ritu @ 9810111691

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Seeking the WOW factor


2010
03.26

READING, examining, reviewing, trashing, repositioning, writing, rewriting, editing, reediting, googling, junking, referring, discussing, dissecting, crunching, sipping (saccharine-sweet chai), designing, redesigning, instructing, tweaking, polishing, refining, chatting, smiling, giggling, coughing, blushing…I spent my 33rd birthday doing all of that in the office whilst wrapping up a magazine edition. Not drinking. Not partying. Not binging (except for a monstrously sinful cake of chocolate, cream and caramel).

My friend Dr Jo reacted with “WTF”.  So this was my (nonchalant) retort, “Excellence does not come from scuttling home at 6. A job maybe. But not excellence.”

Not that the outcome of what we do is anything near excellence. But the spirit is willing (as well as the flesh) and that I think is what matters.

The good doctor who ironically does several zombie hours from home on weekends, agreed and told me something interesting. He said,” My ex-boss before leaving gifted everyone a photoframe with something written on it. Some got good attitude, trainer hard work, and other such epithets, et al.”

Then he added,” She gave me EXCELLENCE. It’s still on my cabin wall.”

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Sweet 33, and what happened 10 years back


2010
03.26

33 promises to be a good number for me. The crap of the 20s is finito. I am in an interesting city with much exploring to be done. I like my job, which is in line with my long-terms goals (drumming sense into the recesses of young, impressionable minds), and I have good friends and family.

10 years back I was living in Anand Bungalow, a cosy little house in Pune, sharing a space with seven women (shudders!). Some were cranky, some were materialistic, some were sluts.

Cat fights were a regular feature, every now and then. One girl wrote her name on the eggs in the fridge, post a few thefts. Those were the days of random living but high thinking. Guitar sessions on the porch. Chit-chats and dissection about, which boy liked who, and why and how. Should we head off to Lonavala on bikes at 2 am or marinate for a barbeque by the Khadakwasala dam?

Every now and then we had a pathetic soul knocking on our door and asking with sincerity,” will you make frendsip with me?”, while we would giggle, meanly. I remember NDA cadets “proposing” randomly on Valentine’s Day bang in the middle of Ferguson College Road; we would giggle, meanly.

Feeling miserable is a part of “finding yourself”, a process which began for me in Pune. But I don’t ever recall ever being too miserable, except during the last flushes of love, when the flame is dying out, yet you do all you can to make it last a little longer. Destiny has other plans; it’s not meant to be. And thank God! I would have been ruing the day. But no regrets. Just memories of which, even the bad ones are good.

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Roses, deer and auntyvillle


2009
12.03
Roses, deer and old ladies
I discovered not one, but three parks in the vicinity, each frequented by folks of a different demographic.
There’s a little one (by Delhi standards ie) located a stone’s throw away from my place, mostly patronised by old ladies and middle-aged married gals living in the neighbourhood.
The peacocks in the Rose Garden are a sight to behold, when they dart across the running track, one after another. On either side of the track, you have the woods, a few stray seats and a clearing every now and then. On the other side of the park, you have a large clearing dotted rows of roses . It has the best running track of the three, and is frequented by the nouveau young (middle-aged but youthful) couples, international people and athletic-looking singles. It’s massive by any standard. This one I like best (cause of the good running track).
The Deer Park has deer, ducks and peacocks, somewhat rudimentary but workable badminton courts, and is frequented by the classes and the masses and everyone in-between. Running here is not so hot, as every now and then you need to jump over mounds of earth, being dug up for God knows what.

I discovered not one, but three parks in the vicinity, each frequented by folks of a different demographic.

There’s a little one (by Delhi standards ie) located a stone’s throw away from my place, mostly patronised by old ladies and middle-aged married gals living in the neighbourhood. Auntyville.

The peacocks in the Rose Garden are a sight to behold, as they dart across the running track, one after another. The woods sandwich the track on either side, and you have a few seats and clearings, every now and then. There’s one large clearing dotted with rose plants. This park has the best running track of the three, and is frequented by the nouveau young (middle-aged but youthful) couples, people of diverse nationalities and some very athletic-looking solo joggers. It’s massive by any standard. This one I like best; it’s pure magnificence in the midst of a chaotic Indian city.

The Deer Park has deer, ducks and peacocks and somewhat rudimentary but functional badminton courts. This one is frequented by the classes, the masses and everyone in-between. Running here is not so hot, as every now and then you need to jump over mounds of earth, being dug up for God knows what reason.

But I am not complaining. Three isn’t a crowd. It’s helping me commune with nature.

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Talking movies


2009
12.01

I recently met someone who loves talking movies; a regular guy who is neither a film-maker nor a critic, but appreciates films with a vengeance. It reminded me of the films I grew up with. So, on a whim I downloaded Chitty Chitty Bang Bang, and chuckled at Dick Van Dyke’s shenanigans, for the 100th time.

But I realised two interesting things about the film, when watching it as an adult. This kiddie tale was penned by the creator of James Bond, Ian Fleming, and the screenplay was written by one of my favourite authors, whose work I read as an adult — Roald Dahl.

I was 10 years old when I saw it last. Yet, every scene played out in my mind’s eye, split seconds before it did on screen. Kind of like an echo. Sigh.

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Corny answers to corny questions


2009
08.25

My barefoot ‘n’ preggers friend Maya who fancies herself as being a gypsy in her previous life, has tagged me, and now I have to take this very corny quiz. But what the hell, here goes! Corny answers for corny questions.

1. What is your current obsession?
Can’t confess in public! Let’s just say that this week, my obsession finally turned into reality. It’s now time for a new obsession.

2. What is your weirdest obsession?
When I was younger I wanted to be thin. Now, I just want to be healthy.

3. What are you wearing today?
An abstract print top from AND, denim, a silver ring in the shape of spiral, and a secret smile.

4. What are you listening to right now?
The clickety-clack of my laptop keyboard and some very distasteful music courtesy my next-door neighbour.

5. What’s for dinner?
Depends on where I am eating, tonight.

6. What’s the last thing you bought?
A mojito

7. Which language do you want to learn?
Spanish/ Portuguese

8. If you could have a house totally paid for, fully furnished anywhere in the world, where would you like it to be?
New York City

9. If you could go anywhere in the world for the next hour, where would you go?
Austria

10. If you had $100 now, what would you spend it on?
A very luxurious spa treatment.

11. What are your must-have pieces for summer?
My mantra for summer – less is more.

12. What is your favorite piece of clothing in your own closet?
A chocolate brown pair of party shorts, with a lace trimmings.

13. What do you do when you “have nothing to wear” (even though your closet’s packed)?
Use my credit card.

14. What do you consider a fashion faux pas?
Wearing granny underpants with a slim-fit pair of trousers. The secret weapon my dears: thongs.

15. Give us three styling tips that always work for you.
Well-fitted clothes for your body type, a good haircut, smell good.

16. What’s your favorite quote?
I sleep around for pleasure. In business, I use intelligence.

17. Describe your personal style.
A mix of this ‘n’ that.

18. Who do you want to meet right now?
The Indian Government, to give them a piece of my mind!

19. What is your favorite colour?
Green ‘n’ blue, not one without the other.

20. What is your dream job?
Jazz vocalist who jetsets around the world, and hobnobs with those who play ‘n’ dig jazz.

21. What’s your favorite magazine?
Harper’s Bazaar, Business Week

22. Which TV character can you simply not tolerate?
The annoyingly anal ones in the average American sitcom ‘n’ Indian soaps centred around kitchen politics.

23. Who are your style icons?
The thirty-something magazine editor in Lipstick Jungle.

24. What are you going to do after this?
Eat lunch

25. What are your favourite movies?
Back To The Future trilogy, The Departed, Sound Of Music, Fiddler On The Roof, Guns of Navarone, The Wizard Of Oz, Gulaal, City Of God, Ocean’s 11 trilogy, Band Of Brothers,

26. What inspires you?
Nature, people, music, tragedy, cinema, poetry, global events, nothing, anything, everything.

27. Coffee or tea?
Mojito!

28. Pet peeve?
Suck-ups. Killjoys. BBBO (bad breathe, body odour)

29. What do you think about the person who tagged you?
She makes a very loyal friend, a quirky mom, a bold, compassionate woman with a child-like zest for life and all its complexities.

I tag couch potato, merril and malini to take it on!

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FACEBOOK IS HIRING


2009
07.18

I’ve turned into a self-confessed Facebook addict, so much so, that I was combing sections like ‘Careers’ and ‘About’. As per my expectations, they were as casually cool as the rest of the site. I absolutely dug this particular key note:

Innovation is paramount

No matter what part of Facebook you join, you’ll be building something big and new. You won’t simply be finding answers; you’ll be framing questions that no one has ever asked before – and identifying unprecedented opportunities. We welcome pioneers. In fact, we insist on them.

Wow.

Another key note, which instantly caught my attention:

Food

This may be our most awesome perk. Facebook provides microkitchens and lots of great, free snacks at just about all its major worldwide locations. At our Palo Alto headquarters, we also offer free breakfast, lunch and dinner at our Cafe. Whether you’re looking for healthy salads, hearty world cuisine from countries such as Belize and India, or just a couple slices of pizza, Chef Josef and his team of culinary geniuses make it happen every day.

Yum.

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