Archive for October, 2005

Monday October 31, 2005


2005
10.31

Draping and carrying off a sari is truly an art. I thought I had mastered that one on my trip to Europe when I had to drape one everyday in a span of five minutes, in all sorts of odd places, like travelling buses, greenrooms packed with mad Parsi and Catholic women etc

Today, in a bout of festive fervour, I pulled out a purple and green one gifted to me by my buddy Poornima for her wedding and wore it to office.

It’s the end of the day, and the pleats are trailing westward, the pallu is sweeping the floor and I look a couple of kilos heavier.

Kudso to anyone who can carry off the damn thing with finesse.

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Thursday October 27, 2005


2005
10.27

Bad moods are contagious. Still trying not figure out how not to allow someone else’s bad mood to rub off on me.

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Wednesday October 26, 2005


2005
10.26

Last night Tanvi and myself were hopping round the bend to the local pub for a swig of vodka.

A stumpy looking pot-bellied, moustached man was walking behind us.

He suddenly called out to us. ” Hi, can I drop you somewhere? My car is just a little ahead. I can pick it up and drop you wherever you like, ” he said as if he was asking us for directions or if the road ahead is blocked.

Tanvi looked flummoxed.

I saw red.

” Are you out of your mind?,” I shot back, and then started marching ahead, fumming.

” Ok ok, you don’t have to be rude. Just say yes or no,” he said. 

Tanvi chased behind me. She felt I was too severe in my reaction.

” Why??? How dare he ask us such questions and that too in the most non-chalant manner? We don’t even look like prostitutes/escorts, whatever, “ I said.

( Me in a demure kurta and Tanvi in a most unflattering t-shirt) 

“I also secretly felt a cheap thrill while saying that, ” I confessed and she smiled.

We watched the little, stumpy man making his way to his car which was parked about a mile away.

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Tuesday October 25, 2005


2005
10.25

Saw The Aviator the other day. I wonder whether it’s a natural for talented, visionaries to turn into lunatics.

Or is it because a seed is allowed courtesy, self-indulgence, power, luxury to flower into it’s full horrifc glory?

 

 

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Monday October 24, 2005


2005
10.24

Read Alert: My folks are coming to visit me!

To do list

Wipe out any hints of dubious activity around the house.

Replace all-purpose coffee mugs with pristine glasses.

Transfer mountain of clothes from bed, chairs etc and tuck neatly into cupboard.

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Monday October 17, 2005


2005
10.17

Had a new temporary roommate for the week…a real hottie called Kevin (affectionately called Kevi). Glowing skin, a sunny disposition and all that a girl can ask for.

Okay…this is getting corny. Kevin is a labrador with a wee bit of Golden retreiver blood in him (his grand daddy was one). Anyways, Kevi belongs to Vinky and popped over for a few hours on Sunday evening.

Reminded me of the two little fellas Trigger and Bingo who left a lasting imprint in my life.

Trigger was a shiny, black labrador who belonged to Sandeep my cousin. He was a very affectionate chappy. He passed away a couple of years back and we all miss him terribly. Everyone loved him, right from the postman to visiting thugs. 

Bingo was a very gorgeous looking mongrel who sported golden fur and a very, very happy and protective disposition. He belonged to my granny and I played with him when we visited Goa for the summer holidays, when I was little.

Anyways I simultameously feared and revered Bingo. I relished the way this huge (as compared to my 5-year-old frame) ball of golden fur bounced all around the place with excitement and energy, and I sometimes was afraid that he may turn wild and bite, which of course he never did.

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Tuesday October 11, 2005


2005
10.11

I’ve finally moved into my new apartment.

I’d rather prefer to say I’ve moved to my ’swank’ new apartment, but it isn’t as ’swank’ as it is warm, cosy and inviting. There’s lots of wood and warm tones, to make anyone feel at home.

My predessesor was none other than cricketer Vinod Kambli, who sobbed post a match that went awry because of the rain and was dropped from the Indian team, subsequently.

My landlord is full of stories about VK, who is now married to his second Catholic wife Andrea and lives somewhere hear Mehboob studio in Bandra. He would start the day with a swig. Besides, this when he first took up the lease he would order five bottles of mineral water everyday from the store down the lane, until the landlord suggested the concept of aquaguard. Common sense dawned and the little store down the lane lost some brisk business.

His vanity case lies outside in the veranda, with his name inscribed on the cover, as does the remnants of his double-bed.

I’ve had many, many, many roommates ever since I left home in 1992. Some moody, some sly, some plain obnoxious. My current roommates — Tanvi and Vinky, seem by far the most humane, funny, spontaneous, yet.

Yesterday, we cooked our virgin meal in the new place. Midway the puree ran out, and we had to quickly whip up some more. With a little damage control, we salvaged the meal and had a sumptous spread of khichi-turned-pulao and potato-capsicum bharta-turned-gravy dish, along with roties and sabji, sent over by the current landlady. Post dinner, we had some caramel pudding, made by me.

This is bliss. No ranting from the landlady. No curfews on television viewing. Just peace, intellectual stimuli, humour (lots of it), space, music and compassion.

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Thursday October 6, 2005


2005
10.06

Tsunami dreams

 

I have them all the time. Usually the gist is somewhat like this.

 

I’m standing on the edge of a promenade or a cliff, alongside someone who is very close to me. It could be my mother or some friends. We are talking about life and it’s complexities. There’s a cool breeze as we speak. Then a massive wave comes and beats against wherever it is we are standing. However, we always survive the lash.

 

This time, the setting is the beach. My family and me live very close to it. We board a bus and the entire coterie is somewhere, I am not sure of the destination. This bus was travelling along a concrete road and for some reason the road tapered straight into the sea. We were quite oblivious to the route of the bus. Suddenly it was wading through muddy waters. Then the bus took a u-turn and through the corner of my eye, I could see a mammoth wave approachingcoming towards us. The bus headed for land. I jumped out.

 

My mum and sis were chatting in the vicinity. I sheparded them to shelter, as the reality did not seem to sink in. We were filled with curiosity and tried to catch a glimpse of the Tsunami. It had a gelatinous  consistency and appeared to moving in slow-motion. It was spreading it’s tentacles, slowly but surely.

 

We are still alive. That’s it. End of dream.

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